Wednesday, October 20th, 2021


Date Makes Fun of Overweight Person


(Online Dating Newsletter – You Make the Call) You are out on a first date at a restaurant and everything seems to be going well. Your date notices an overweight person with a big pile of food and makes a few snide comments about the person and the food he/she is eating.  What do you do? Be silent? Say something? Make a joke about the person yourself?

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8 Responses to “Date Makes Fun of Overweight Person”
  1. Ashley says:

    I would not tolerate this at all! I would definitely say something and I probably would not go out with him again. We all have had issues with eating and weight and we have to treat everybody equally. I’m sure this guy eats like that in the privacy of his home when no one is looking.

  2. Diana says:

    There is absolutely no fun in making fun about other people’s looks. So if it were to happen with my date that he makes fun of innocent people,then it would absolutely means that he has no sense of humor and he’s also insensitive. One thing for sure is that I wouldn’t go about making fun of that innocent person, instead I’ll try and call my date into order.

  3. Monica says:

    Either I would not say anything or I might say something like “that’s not very nice”; I definitely would not continue to date such a shallow person.

  4. LINDA says:

    I would probably say this person has a thyroid condition and can’t help themselves…
    And then ask if they have an idea what people with this go thru???????

  5. Will says:

    This is a tough situation, I mean, we all have things that we have said in the past that we are not proud of… what if this person immediately regretted this the moment it came out of their mouth?

    I would smile, say something smart that made the point I was not the type of person that partook in this type of behavior.

  6. Marg says:

    Depending on the remark and situation I might comment or not. If I were to comment, I would point out that we are all different and maybe this person has no control over his weight/diet (medical condition), he just wants to be overweight, he needs a wakeup call to control his weght if he can. That is his bsuiness. We could notice that he is fat, but to make a snide or degrading comment is not acceptable.

  7. jesse says:

    I guess it depends on whether you want to create a relationship with this date or just take them home. If you wanted a relationship and are offended by this then they are definitely not your type. If you want to just take them home then give them the response you think they would want and all will be well

  8. Faraz says:

    It totally depends upon the situation. If i really like the person then I would convince her that we should not make fun of others, they love to eat so we should not have any problem with it. If you are only interested to take your date home then as Jesse said, say the things that they would like o hear.

  9. Terry says:

    Jesse, you’re an idiot. How shallow are you? You’d go along with this because you want to sleep with this moron. I hope you get an STD from the creep.

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