Online Dating Tip – Be Mysterious
(Online Dating Newsletter) For whatever psychological reason, people are attracted to a man or woman that is a bit mysterious. Perhaps it’s the challenge of finding out what the person is all about or perhaps its the knowledge that there’s more about the person to uncover. Whatever the reason, you can make this work for you when it comes to online dating. First, don’t lay your life out in your profile like an open book. And don’t spill all the beans on your first date. By keeping the focus of your communications on the other person, you reveal less about yourself and thus become more of a mystery. Doing things out of the ordinary also add to that aura of mystery (i.e. very creative dates, a thoughtful gesture most men/women don’t do, etc.). Being mysterious also means not being loud, talking less, being very polite (i.e. James Bond), being well groomed, and being very confident. Work on all these areas not just to become more mysterious to the opposite sex, but also to become a better person overall.
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I believe it is the mystery that creates more of a perfect illusion, raising the love expectation and false sense of human reality. This is why most relationships don’t last very long. The key is to be yourself and balance your modest character with reality and honest. Too much mystery may backfire.
I think that being yourself is the greatest of all because you might forget to ‘be mysterious’ and when you are finally yourself – you might not like the outcome. So why play the games – this I do not understand and really don’t much care to do so.
I believe that you should NOT talk about your past or if you do (because it might be too soon and then you probably would talk about it) – never be negative – because it was part of your past and you shared that time with the person you are being so negative about – yes – it probably is negative now that you are out of that relationship and you see it with different eyes – but you were part of it for awhile – and the only thing you can do is thank GOD for having helped you to open your eyes or give you the experience to learn from to be the greater you that you have become.
I BELIEVE THAT WE GROW FROM EACH OF OUR EXPERIENCES AND THAT WE MUST ALWAYS BE THANKFULL FOR THEM NO MATTER HOW TERRIBLE THEY MAY BE AND THEY MAY BE HORRIBLE – BUT YOU SURVIVED AND NOW YOU ARE HERE – SO BE GRATEFULL TO YOURSELF AND YOUR MAKER FOR THIS EXPERIENCE THAT MAKES YOU – YOU NOW.