Online Dating Tip – Be Mysterious
(Online Dating Newsletter) For whatever psychological reason, people are attracted to a man or woman that is a bit mysterious. Perhaps it’s the challenge of finding out what the person is all about or perhaps its the knowledge that there’s more about the person to uncover. Whatever the reason, you can make this work for you when it comes to online dating. First, don’t lay your life out in your profile like an open book. And don’t spill all the beans on your first date. By keeping the focus of your communications on the other person, you reveal less about yourself and thus become more of a mystery. Doing things out of the ordinary also add to that aura of mystery (i.e. very creative dates, a thoughtful gesture most men/women don’t do, etc.). Being mysterious also means not being loud, talking less, being very polite (i.e. James Bond), being well groomed, and being very confident. Work on all these areas not just to become more mysterious to the opposite sex, but also to become a better person overall.