http://www.onlinedatingnewsletter.com/archives/creativedateideas/53/the-surprise-date.html Weekly newsletter for singles and online daters Sun, 13 Feb 2011 14:44:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.onlinedatingnewsletter.com/archives/creativedateideas/53/the-surprise-date.html/comment-page-1#comment-1692 Rhonda Thu, 07 May 2009 05:44:10 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingnewsletter.com/?p=53#comment-1692 "Surprise" dates can be great but make sure you know it is something your date will really enjoy. I had a friend who once planned a surprise date and spent money on lining things up only to find out his date absolutely hated the city he planned to take her to and she refused to go. She had such bad memories of that city that it actually killed their relationship. (I'm not sure how he didn't know what her reaction was going to be. Some bad events really stay with a person and shouldn't be discounted or minimized by others.) “Surprise” dates can be great but make sure you know it is something your date will really enjoy. I had a friend who once planned a surprise date and spent money on lining things up only to find out his date absolutely hated the city he planned to take her to and she refused to go. She had such bad memories of that city that it actually killed their relationship. (I’m not sure how he didn’t know what her reaction was going to be. Some bad events really stay with a person and shouldn’t be discounted or minimized by others.)

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